MISFITS

My mother is 88 years today. It is her birthday. But she does not want to talk to me. Why? It is because of her adamant nature and wrong value systems. She has been an independent person. Too independent to be a mother. She has had her way, all the time, always. She has never questioned herself, whether her decision and actions were right or wrong. Whether it would do her family and children good or bad. Whether it would cause them pain or not. She was only bothered about having her way. It was always I, Me, Myself. Normally it is the children who misbehave, and parents who correct them. But in our family it was the other way around. They would misbehave, and we had to put up with the moods and forgive them each time. Now I am 63 years old, and I have become tired of tolerating and forgiving. So when she refused to take my call. I let go. Enough is enough. I am not blaming her. She was married at the young age of 13. She was not marriage material at all. She had no wife...